1 00:00:02,836 --> 00:00:07,215 {\an8}So when I met you in Villa, like, I knew nothing. 2 00:00:07,216 --> 00:00:10,384 {\an8}And then I got home, and I was telling my friends. 3 00:00:10,385 --> 00:00:12,303 {\an8}And then, like, social media, 4 00:00:12,304 --> 00:00:14,180 {\an8}and I would, like, see everything. 5 00:00:14,181 --> 00:00:16,265 {\an8}And I was like, oh. 6 00:00:16,266 --> 00:00:19,352 {\an8}After being canceled, I have to be willing 7 00:00:19,353 --> 00:00:21,145 {\an8}to have these conversations 8 00:00:21,146 --> 00:00:24,023 {\an8}because it's a part of my past. 9 00:00:24,024 --> 00:00:26,692 {\an8}But it always makes me nervous 10 00:00:26,693 --> 00:00:29,737 {\an8}'cause I never know how it's gonna go. 11 00:00:29,738 --> 00:00:34,200 {\an8}But if she has questions, I want to answer them for her. 12 00:00:34,201 --> 00:00:35,868 {\an8}Like, that might have been hard to see. 13 00:00:35,869 --> 00:00:37,370 {\an8}It--it was. 14 00:00:37,371 --> 00:00:39,664 {\an8}'Cause I've thought about this for some time, 15 00:00:39,665 --> 00:00:43,626 {\an8}and I didn't know, like, how I wanted to approach it. 16 00:00:43,627 --> 00:00:45,878 I was scared that season, like, in Italy. 17 00:00:45,879 --> 00:00:47,129 Yeah. 18 00:00:47,130 --> 00:00:48,548 Partly because of that. 19 00:00:48,549 --> 00:00:50,049 Yeah, how did you feel when you and I were, 20 00:00:50,050 --> 00:00:51,717 like, connecting a lot more? 21 00:00:51,718 --> 00:00:53,719 Did you even think about, like, I wonder if she knows? 22 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:55,179 Yes. 23 00:00:55,180 --> 00:00:58,307 There's not a day of my life that goes by 24 00:00:58,308 --> 00:01:00,142 that I don't think about that. 25 00:01:02,688 --> 00:01:06,065 Have you talked about this with another Black person? 26 00:01:08,986 --> 00:01:10,444 I have. OK. 27 00:01:10,445 --> 00:01:11,654 - And it's scary. - Yes. 28 00:01:11,655 --> 00:01:13,155 It's scary. - Yeah. 29 00:01:13,156 --> 00:01:15,574 I was a deeply selfish person. 30 00:01:15,575 --> 00:01:18,411 I just, like, said whatever I [bleep] thought. 31 00:01:18,412 --> 00:01:21,330 I got rewarded for [bleep] saying whatever I thought. 32 00:01:21,331 --> 00:01:24,792 I did whatever I wanted to do, got rewarded for doing-- 33 00:01:24,793 --> 00:01:27,586 that's, like, no excuse for anything. 34 00:01:27,587 --> 00:01:30,631 I feel like I just listen to people more, 35 00:01:30,632 --> 00:01:34,093 and I understand that, like, there are still gonna be 36 00:01:34,094 --> 00:01:35,303 times where I am ignorant. 37 00:01:35,304 --> 00:01:36,429 There's a lot that I don't know. 38 00:01:36,430 --> 00:01:38,431 I will never know your perspective. 39 00:01:38,432 --> 00:01:43,102 I didn't realize how [bleep] privileged 40 00:01:43,103 --> 00:01:45,563 I was to say whatever the [bleep] 41 00:01:45,564 --> 00:01:47,315 I wanted without consequences. 42 00:01:47,316 --> 00:01:49,942 And then ultimately I did suffer the consequences, 43 00:01:49,943 --> 00:01:51,360 rightfully [bleep] so. 44 00:01:51,361 --> 00:01:56,073 {\an8}After being canceled and fired from Vanderpump Rules, like, 45 00:01:56,074 --> 00:01:57,283 {\an8}there was a time when, like, I didn't 46 00:01:57,284 --> 00:01:58,576 {\an8}think I would ever work again. 47 00:01:58,577 --> 00:02:04,624 {\an8}I'm just so grateful for this second chance 48 00:02:04,625 --> 00:02:08,169 {\an8}because I didn't want my story to end there. 49 00:02:08,170 --> 00:02:09,503 {\an8}Like, that's a part of my story, 50 00:02:09,504 --> 00:02:11,672 {\an8}but, like, my story can continue. 51 00:02:11,673 --> 00:02:13,215 I love you guys. 52 00:02:13,216 --> 00:02:14,634 I--we love you. 53 00:02:14,635 --> 00:02:16,427 Anytime you want to talk about it, please-- 54 00:02:16,428 --> 00:02:17,928 this is actually, like, healing to talk about it. 55 00:02:17,929 --> 00:02:19,221 It's just, like, so crazy. 56 00:02:19,222 --> 00:02:21,766 'Cause if you met me, though, like, before 57 00:02:21,767 --> 00:02:25,895 this all went down, you wouldn't like me. 58 00:02:25,896 --> 00:02:26,854 Like-- - Yeah, I know. 59 00:02:26,855 --> 00:02:27,855 I'm-- 60 00:02:29,149 --> 00:02:30,232 Aside from the obvious, 61 00:02:30,233 --> 00:02:31,901 I think dark passenger was an icon. 62 00:02:31,902 --> 00:02:36,697 The dark passenger still lives inside. 63 00:02:36,698 --> 00:02:38,908 You'll never know when that one's gonna come out. 64 00:02:38,909 --> 00:02:42,995 That one mainly goes to boyfriends, or now husbands. 65 00:02:42,996 --> 00:02:44,455 You know what I mean? 66 00:02:44,456 --> 00:02:46,082 The dark passenger is, like, kind of reserved for that. 67 00:02:46,083 --> 00:02:47,626 Right, we keep 'em for that. 68 00:02:52,130 --> 00:02:53,506 {\an8}No. 69 00:02:53,507 --> 00:02:55,383 {\an8}Like, I don't want it to end. 70 00:02:55,384 --> 00:02:58,887 {\an8}This has been a really great, great few months of my life. 71 00:03:00,806 --> 00:03:02,139 {\an8}Are you joking me? 72 00:03:02,140 --> 00:03:04,392 {\an8}My dinner on the Queen Mary. 73 00:03:04,393 --> 00:03:08,020 {\an8}Literally the moment you've been waiting for, OK? 74 00:03:21,076 --> 00:03:24,036 Oh, my God. 75 00:03:24,037 --> 00:03:26,580 This is cool. 76 00:03:26,581 --> 00:03:28,541 Yeah! 77 00:03:28,542 --> 00:03:29,709 This is [bleep] cool. 78 00:03:29,710 --> 00:03:32,044 Emo Santa. That's hilarious. 79 00:03:32,045 --> 00:03:34,588 {\an8}It was so great to see Beau just come alive 80 00:03:34,589 --> 00:03:36,090 {\an8}and be so happy at Emo Nite. 81 00:03:36,091 --> 00:03:38,092 {\an8}So I planned Emo Christmas 82 00:03:38,093 --> 00:03:41,220 {\an8}because I'm worried that Stassi doesn't see 83 00:03:41,221 --> 00:03:42,972 {\an8}that this Beau has been missing. 84 00:03:42,973 --> 00:03:45,474 {\an8}And I--it breaks my heart. 85 00:03:45,475 --> 00:03:48,978 {\an8}Thanks for having me at Emo Christmas. 86 00:03:48,979 --> 00:03:50,729 {\an8}Emo Christmas is actually 87 00:03:50,730 --> 00:03:52,857 {\an8}the perfect emo thing for me to go to 88 00:03:52,858 --> 00:03:55,484 {\an8}because it's Christmas and it's during the day. 89 00:03:55,485 --> 00:03:58,529 {\an8}Plus, I really want to make an effort for Katie. 90 00:03:58,530 --> 00:04:00,698 {\an8}Like, she has shown up for me, 91 00:04:00,699 --> 00:04:02,825 {\an8}and I really just want to show up for her. 92 00:04:02,826 --> 00:04:05,286 {\an8}I look like I belong. Um... 93 00:04:05,287 --> 00:04:06,787 {\an8}You fit in perfectly. 94 00:04:06,788 --> 00:04:08,539 {\an8}This is fun. 95 00:04:08,540 --> 00:04:10,875 {\an8}Oh, my gosh! - Hi! 96 00:04:10,876 --> 00:04:13,294 Hi. 97 00:04:13,295 --> 00:04:14,545 I'm forcing you to give me a hug. 98 00:04:14,546 --> 00:04:15,880 I feel like I should tell that to my wife 99 00:04:15,881 --> 00:04:17,089 and be like, you know what, I don't want hugs anymore. 100 00:04:17,090 --> 00:04:18,466 And then all of a sudden, she's gonna be like, 101 00:04:18,467 --> 00:04:20,176 hey, hug. Hey. 102 00:04:20,177 --> 00:04:21,927 Like a reverse mind trick? 103 00:04:21,928 --> 00:04:23,554 Like when we tell Messer, we don't want a kiss from you. 104 00:04:23,555 --> 00:04:25,014 Don't kiss us, don't kiss us. 105 00:04:25,015 --> 00:04:26,599 And he's like, oh, I'm gonna kiss you. 106 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:28,225 {\an8}Hearing Beau talk about Stassi 107 00:04:28,226 --> 00:04:32,480 {\an8}not wanting to hug him is exactly why I need to help him. 108 00:04:32,481 --> 00:04:35,483 {\an8}He's basically crying out for help. 109 00:04:35,484 --> 00:04:37,485 Mwah. How are you? Good. 110 00:04:37,486 --> 00:04:38,611 I really like this place. 111 00:04:38,612 --> 00:04:40,070 We should actually come here often. 112 00:04:40,071 --> 00:04:42,114 This makes me think of the wallpaper in Versailles. 113 00:04:42,115 --> 00:04:43,240 There's that one green room-- 114 00:04:43,241 --> 00:04:45,159 - I know, I know! - That has-- 115 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:46,535 Look at this man. 116 00:04:46,536 --> 00:04:47,912 I should have got that-- I should have got that-- 117 00:04:47,913 --> 00:04:49,246 I should have got that tattooed on me. 118 00:04:49,247 --> 00:04:50,664 Damn it. 119 00:04:50,665 --> 00:04:54,543 {\an8}I got a tattoo, and it says Stassi's name. 120 00:04:54,544 --> 00:04:55,878 {\an8}Love my wife. 121 00:04:55,879 --> 00:04:57,421 {\an8}She has no clue you're doing this? 122 00:04:57,422 --> 00:04:59,757 {\an8}No. So and I also hope that she's not like, 123 00:04:59,758 --> 00:05:01,717 {\an8}you didn't need to get it done! 124 00:05:01,718 --> 00:05:03,302 Lay down, my friend. 125 00:05:03,303 --> 00:05:04,595 All right. Thank you. 126 00:05:04,596 --> 00:05:06,013 {\an8}Finally, I did it. 127 00:05:06,014 --> 00:05:07,640 {\an8}And if you've been here since episode one, 128 00:05:07,641 --> 00:05:10,100 {\an8}you know this is-- it's kind of a big deal. 129 00:05:10,101 --> 00:05:14,688 {\an8}You can get my name under that basic-ass [bleep] tattoo. 130 00:05:14,689 --> 00:05:17,066 I'm supposed to be number one. 131 00:05:17,067 --> 00:05:19,819 I don't have a tattoo of Stassi's name... 132 00:05:19,820 --> 00:05:21,237 - Right, right, but--right. - On my body. 133 00:05:21,238 --> 00:05:23,280 That's literally what this is about. 134 00:05:23,281 --> 00:05:27,159 You feel safe with me. I can make you feel unsafe. 135 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:28,327 This is wild. 136 00:05:28,328 --> 00:05:29,411 {\an8}I made sure that it was, like, 137 00:05:29,412 --> 00:05:31,622 {\an8}17 times bigger than my sister's. 138 00:05:31,623 --> 00:05:33,290 {\an8}It's--you can really see it. 139 00:05:35,252 --> 00:05:38,003 I'm gonna take off my jacket and just walk around 140 00:05:38,004 --> 00:05:40,005 and see if Stassi notices, you know? 141 00:05:40,006 --> 00:05:41,257 'Cause remember, I said she doesn't-- 142 00:05:41,258 --> 00:05:42,591 she doesn't see me. 143 00:05:42,592 --> 00:05:44,218 This is a big surprise. 144 00:05:44,219 --> 00:05:46,971 {\an8}OK, I've been hiding it for, like, two days. 145 00:05:46,972 --> 00:05:49,723 {\an8}But then also, when I got my beard dyed, 146 00:05:49,724 --> 00:05:51,225 {\an8}you know, she didn't even realize that. 147 00:05:51,226 --> 00:05:53,978 {\an8}So I probably didn't even need to hide the tattoo 148 00:05:53,979 --> 00:05:57,898 {\an8}'cause she probably wouldn't even have noticed anyways. 149 00:05:57,899 --> 00:06:01,026 {\an8}Oh, marriage. 150 00:06:01,027 --> 00:06:02,403 What did you think about that bag? 151 00:06:02,404 --> 00:06:03,737 In the Sex and the City movie, when she took it out-- 152 00:06:03,738 --> 00:06:04,863 or were you like, this is disgusting? 153 00:06:04,864 --> 00:06:05,823 I'm not a Louis Vuitton person. 154 00:06:05,824 --> 00:06:06,949 What kind of bag was it? 155 00:06:06,950 --> 00:06:07,950 Was it, like, a massive bag? Is it-- 156 00:06:07,951 --> 00:06:09,368 I'm not a Louis Vuitton girl. 157 00:06:09,369 --> 00:06:10,828 It was like--it had these little yellow handles. 158 00:06:10,829 --> 00:06:12,204 Was it, like, this big? It was like blue. 159 00:06:12,205 --> 00:06:13,664 I would say, like, this big. It was, like, blue corduroy. 160 00:06:13,665 --> 00:06:14,582 Have you seen this bag before? 161 00:06:14,583 --> 00:06:15,916 Was it like this? 162 00:06:15,917 --> 00:06:17,793 Stassi has been putting a lot more effort. 163 00:06:17,794 --> 00:06:21,130 {\an8}I feel a lot more seen than-- than I have before. 164 00:06:21,131 --> 00:06:24,550 {\an8}And it just feels really-- it feels really good. 165 00:06:24,551 --> 00:06:26,969 {\an8}So this is my way to say thank you. 166 00:06:26,970 --> 00:06:28,178 Wow. 167 00:06:28,179 --> 00:06:29,471 Have you seen the first Sex and the City movie? 168 00:06:29,472 --> 00:06:30,890 - Huh? - Sex and the City. 169 00:06:30,891 --> 00:06:32,141 Have you ever seen it? - What? 170 00:06:32,142 --> 00:06:33,392 The first movie. 171 00:06:33,393 --> 00:06:35,395 What? 172 00:06:41,484 --> 00:06:42,610 Oh, you're crying? 173 00:06:42,611 --> 00:06:44,570 That's not the thing--oh. Is that OK? 174 00:06:44,571 --> 00:06:46,238 Is that--do you like it? Yeah. No? 175 00:06:46,239 --> 00:06:47,573 It's so period piece, 176 00:06:47,574 --> 00:06:49,033 and that's, like, the Marie Antoinette shoe! 177 00:06:49,034 --> 00:06:50,326 It is. 178 00:06:50,327 --> 00:06:52,411 It's the Marie Antoinette shoe. 179 00:06:52,412 --> 00:06:55,748 Yes. Yeah! 180 00:06:55,749 --> 00:06:57,458 And I got it bigger than my sister's. 181 00:06:57,459 --> 00:07:00,586 Oh, my God. 182 00:07:00,587 --> 00:07:02,005 I want to cry! 183 00:07:04,883 --> 00:07:05,799 {\an8}No. 184 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:07,801 {\an8}I feel like the audience and everyone 185 00:07:07,802 --> 00:07:10,262 {\an8}is just gonna be like, she totally demanded that tattoo. 186 00:07:10,263 --> 00:07:11,513 {\an8}I didn't! 187 00:07:11,514 --> 00:07:12,848 {\an8}When we had that fight in Italy, 188 00:07:12,849 --> 00:07:14,850 {\an8}it wasn't really about getting the tattoo. 189 00:07:14,851 --> 00:07:19,355 {\an8}But, like, honestly, now that he has it, I [bleep] love it. 190 00:07:23,401 --> 00:07:25,611 Cover your eyes, cover your eyes. 191 00:07:25,612 --> 00:07:28,530 {\an8}It feels good. It feels really good. 192 00:07:28,531 --> 00:07:30,491 {\an8}And I hope we just, you know, 193 00:07:30,492 --> 00:07:33,452 {\an8}finally close the chapter on tattoo gate. 194 00:07:33,453 --> 00:07:35,996 {\an8}Beau and I are in a good place. 195 00:07:35,997 --> 00:07:38,791 {\an8}Like, I'm so glad we're on the same page right now, 196 00:07:38,792 --> 00:07:40,793 {\an8}and life is pretty good. 197 00:07:40,794 --> 00:07:42,127 When did you get it? 198 00:07:42,128 --> 00:07:43,672 Oh, a couple days ago. 199 00:07:44,506 --> 00:07:45,756 I didn't know that. 200 00:07:45,757 --> 00:07:48,550 {\an8}There you go. It's huge. 201 00:07:48,551 --> 00:07:50,678 {\an8}It taking Stassi three days to notice that 202 00:07:50,679 --> 00:07:53,764 {\an8}Beau got a tattoo is definitely reassuring me 203 00:07:53,765 --> 00:07:56,100 {\an8}that we need to have this sit-down. 204 00:07:56,101 --> 00:07:58,018 {\an8}We need to make sure that Stassi 205 00:07:58,019 --> 00:08:00,813 {\an8}gives Beau "a tattoo," you know? 206 00:08:00,814 --> 00:08:02,231 {\an8}And like, what is that? 207 00:08:02,232 --> 00:08:04,233 {\an8}I don't know what that is, but like, yeah. 208 00:08:04,234 --> 00:08:06,360 {\an8}So I guess this intervention does need to happen. 209 00:08:06,361 --> 00:08:10,239 {\an8}This is a really, really wonderful, beautiful moment 210 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:12,825 {\an8}between Stassi and Beau, but it doesn't necessarily 211 00:08:12,826 --> 00:08:15,494 {\an8}negate that there's some real issues 212 00:08:15,495 --> 00:08:16,830 {\an8}that need to be addressed. 213 00:08:18,999 --> 00:08:20,165 {\an8}Absolutely. 214 00:08:20,166 --> 00:08:23,502 {\an8}I think it should happen sooner rather than later. 215 00:08:29,300 --> 00:08:33,262 Stassi's mentioned her and Beau have issues. 216 00:08:33,263 --> 00:08:35,848 It's so crazy that we had our first date here. 217 00:08:35,849 --> 00:08:38,851 This is where we started to fall in love. 218 00:08:38,852 --> 00:08:42,020 Why don't we have, like, a friendervention? 219 00:08:42,021 --> 00:08:44,189 Hi. What's going on? 220 00:08:44,190 --> 00:08:45,274 Hi. 221 00:08:45,275 --> 00:08:47,860 Should we go, like, grab a table back here? 222 00:08:47,861 --> 00:08:50,154 {\an8}I wanted to get everyone together at the Woods. 223 00:08:50,155 --> 00:08:52,865 {\an8}Because if we're gonna pull off this friendervention, 224 00:08:52,866 --> 00:08:54,199 {\an8}we need to get our ducks in a row, 225 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:55,909 {\an8}make sure we know what we're gonna talk about. 226 00:08:55,910 --> 00:08:57,745 {\an8}Otherwise, it's gonna blow up in our face. 227 00:08:57,746 --> 00:08:59,788 {\an8}Yay. 228 00:08:59,789 --> 00:09:01,832 {\an8}Oh, my God. 229 00:09:01,833 --> 00:09:03,208 {\an8}No one get up. No one get up. 230 00:09:03,209 --> 00:09:05,127 Sorry, I had to put my child down to sleep. 231 00:09:05,128 --> 00:09:06,336 I figured. We figured. 232 00:09:06,337 --> 00:09:08,130 Let's just get into it, then, guys. 233 00:09:08,131 --> 00:09:09,214 OK. 234 00:09:09,215 --> 00:09:11,175 So, yes, what we want to talk to you about 235 00:09:11,176 --> 00:09:12,885 is Stassi and Beau. 236 00:09:12,886 --> 00:09:15,304 Beau is not the person I remember. 237 00:09:15,305 --> 00:09:19,391 {\an8}I've just got so, like, detached, in a sense, 238 00:09:19,392 --> 00:09:21,143 {\an8}from her where it's like we're roommates. 239 00:09:21,144 --> 00:09:22,561 {\an8}I know. 240 00:09:22,562 --> 00:09:23,687 {\an8}Everything is literally just 241 00:09:23,688 --> 00:09:25,856 {\an8}me taking care of the home. 242 00:09:25,857 --> 00:09:27,232 {\an8}Stassi has been working so much. 243 00:09:27,233 --> 00:09:30,569 I have nothing of my own that I used to [bleep] have. 244 00:09:30,570 --> 00:09:32,154 I'm so shut down. 245 00:09:32,155 --> 00:09:34,448 He made a comment saying that he feels like 246 00:09:34,449 --> 00:09:36,116 he's roommates with Stassi. 247 00:09:36,117 --> 00:09:37,367 He told me that. 248 00:09:37,368 --> 00:09:39,453 To me, that's feeling alone. 249 00:09:39,454 --> 00:09:41,747 And Stassi's, like, kind of not getting it 250 00:09:41,748 --> 00:09:43,248 because she's like, I wake up every day happy. 251 00:09:43,249 --> 00:09:46,251 And it's like, that's great, but your partner's not. 252 00:09:46,252 --> 00:09:48,504 I worry because--you know. You've been there. 253 00:09:48,505 --> 00:09:49,671 You know. You've been there. 254 00:09:49,672 --> 00:09:50,756 I've been there, where it's like, 255 00:09:50,757 --> 00:09:52,508 that's when the breakdown happens 256 00:09:52,509 --> 00:09:54,093 of the relationship, of the marriage. 257 00:09:54,094 --> 00:09:56,386 And, you know, I don't want to be an alarmist here. 258 00:09:56,387 --> 00:09:58,931 But if someone's not getting the emotional connection 259 00:09:58,932 --> 00:10:01,975 that they need, when they feel emotionally starved, 260 00:10:01,976 --> 00:10:04,102 this is when affairs happen. 261 00:10:04,103 --> 00:10:07,064 {\an8}I know what it feels like to be in a marriage 262 00:10:07,065 --> 00:10:09,233 {\an8}and feel alone and isolated 263 00:10:09,234 --> 00:10:11,819 {\an8}and like you're becoming roommates. 264 00:10:11,820 --> 00:10:15,405 {\an8}You crave emotional connection. 265 00:10:15,406 --> 00:10:18,951 {\an8}You crave emotional, you know, validation from a person. 266 00:10:18,952 --> 00:10:21,912 {\an8}So when you are presented with somebody 267 00:10:21,913 --> 00:10:24,832 {\an8}who will listen to you, who will validate you, 268 00:10:24,833 --> 00:10:28,627 {\an8}who will make you feel seen, that tends to spiral. 269 00:10:28,628 --> 00:10:30,295 {\an8}And I've found myself in that position. 270 00:10:30,296 --> 00:10:33,298 {\an8}I know how common affairs are and how they happen. 271 00:10:33,299 --> 00:10:36,426 {\an8}And I've experienced the beginning stages of it. 272 00:10:36,427 --> 00:10:38,512 We've all individually talked with Stassi. 273 00:10:38,513 --> 00:10:39,763 Yeah. 274 00:10:39,764 --> 00:10:41,140 It's not getting through to her. 275 00:10:41,141 --> 00:10:42,391 Yeah, 'cause, like, weeks ago, 276 00:10:42,392 --> 00:10:44,142 I had a similar conversation 277 00:10:44,143 --> 00:10:45,894 where I was just like, you should just-- 278 00:10:45,895 --> 00:10:47,896 little times you can find, squeeze his hand, 279 00:10:47,897 --> 00:10:49,314 give him a little, like, pat on the butt. 280 00:10:49,315 --> 00:10:52,151 The other day she did stick her [bleep] up his [bleep]. 281 00:10:52,152 --> 00:10:53,986 OK, well, that's great to hear. 282 00:10:53,987 --> 00:10:55,779 Romance is alive. 283 00:10:55,780 --> 00:10:58,031 We want to figure out-- this is why we called you here 284 00:10:58,032 --> 00:10:59,575 today, because we wanted you guys to, like, kind of, 285 00:10:59,576 --> 00:11:03,370 like, get in on, like, a friendervention with them. 286 00:11:06,124 --> 00:11:07,374 I don't know. 287 00:11:07,375 --> 00:11:09,334 We've had this conversation before with them. 288 00:11:09,335 --> 00:11:11,962 {\an8}It just seems like men haven't really been 289 00:11:11,963 --> 00:11:13,881 {\an8}very trustworthy in your life. 290 00:11:13,882 --> 00:11:17,634 {\an8}It feels incredibly directed towards me. 291 00:11:17,635 --> 00:11:19,386 No, no, wait. No, wait. 292 00:11:19,387 --> 00:11:20,762 Like he's getting off-- 293 00:11:20,763 --> 00:11:22,472 Mm-mm. Stass. 294 00:11:22,473 --> 00:11:24,349 {\an8}I feel like if we keep bringing this issue up 295 00:11:24,350 --> 00:11:27,394 {\an8}to Beau and Stassi, Stassi is gonna feel attacked, 296 00:11:27,395 --> 00:11:29,354 {\an8}and she's gonna start cutting people out. 297 00:11:29,355 --> 00:11:31,481 {\an8}And I feel like I'll probably be the first to go. 298 00:11:31,482 --> 00:11:32,691 It's like, how do we say this 299 00:11:32,692 --> 00:11:34,151 without making her feel attacked? 300 00:11:34,152 --> 00:11:35,277 Because everything we're saying-- 301 00:11:35,278 --> 00:11:36,194 It's delivery. 302 00:11:36,195 --> 00:11:37,279 And I think it's like, it's like, 303 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:38,614 I, like, love you guys, and I just-- 304 00:11:38,615 --> 00:11:39,865 It's just all from love. 305 00:11:39,866 --> 00:11:41,450 Miss you guys. Yeah. 306 00:11:41,451 --> 00:11:42,868 And we know how great they can be. 307 00:11:42,869 --> 00:11:44,036 We've seen it. 308 00:11:44,037 --> 00:11:45,203 Just to be devil's advocate, 309 00:11:45,204 --> 00:11:46,788 I just want to make sure we're prepared. 310 00:11:46,789 --> 00:11:48,957 I'm very apprehensive going into this 311 00:11:48,958 --> 00:11:50,792 {\an8}just because we're dissecting her relationship. 312 00:11:50,793 --> 00:11:52,211 {\an8}And it's like, I know we're on reality 313 00:11:52,212 --> 00:11:53,754 {\an8}and she's making it public, but shit. 314 00:11:53,755 --> 00:11:56,340 {\an8}Like, I am terrified. 315 00:11:56,341 --> 00:11:59,384 We're gonna do this at, like, the dinner, the-- 316 00:11:59,385 --> 00:12:00,427 The Queen Mary. Queen Mary. 317 00:12:00,428 --> 00:12:01,970 I think that that's the smart move 318 00:12:01,971 --> 00:12:03,597 because we'll all be together. 319 00:12:03,598 --> 00:12:06,850 This is gonna shake 'em a bit, Stassi especially. 320 00:12:06,851 --> 00:12:08,352 Yeah, this is step one. 321 00:12:08,353 --> 00:12:11,021 I'm thinking very, very optimistically about this, 322 00:12:11,022 --> 00:12:12,856 that it's gonna be well-received. 323 00:12:16,694 --> 00:12:18,862 She's gonna feel attacked, and-- 324 00:12:18,863 --> 00:12:19,947 It's what kind of happened last time. 325 00:12:19,948 --> 00:12:21,865 - Correct. - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 326 00:12:21,866 --> 00:12:24,576 {\an8}I think that the cameras have exposed 327 00:12:24,577 --> 00:12:27,496 {\an8}something that Stassi and Beau were trying to avoid. 328 00:12:27,497 --> 00:12:29,915 {\an8}They're just not talking. They're not connecting. 329 00:12:29,916 --> 00:12:31,458 {\an8}They're not communicating their needs, 330 00:12:31,459 --> 00:12:33,669 {\an8}their wants, what's making them unhappy. 331 00:12:33,670 --> 00:12:37,047 {\an8}And I think that is a breakdown of any relationship. 332 00:12:37,048 --> 00:12:38,548 I'm, like, hoping it doesn't go that way. 333 00:12:38,549 --> 00:12:40,759 But in my mind, that's how it's gonna go. 334 00:12:50,061 --> 00:12:54,773 {\an8}I am hosting Christmas on a haunted ship 335 00:12:54,774 --> 00:12:57,609 {\an8}because that is the level of theatricality 336 00:12:57,610 --> 00:13:01,780 {\an8}that I bring to a Tuesday, much less a holiday. 337 00:13:01,781 --> 00:13:05,284 {\an8}Since we've been filming, I feel closer to Beau. 338 00:13:05,285 --> 00:13:07,911 {\an8}I feel like we've worked through so much, 339 00:13:07,912 --> 00:13:12,582 {\an8}and I'm just so grateful that I have this man 340 00:13:12,583 --> 00:13:15,335 {\an8}here with me right now. 341 00:13:15,336 --> 00:13:17,796 {\an8}I feel confident in what I want to say 342 00:13:17,797 --> 00:13:20,257 {\an8}to Stassi and Beau and how I want to say it. 343 00:13:20,258 --> 00:13:23,885 {\an8}But if I'm honest, I do have a few butterflies in my basket. 344 00:13:23,886 --> 00:13:26,263 {\an8}No one wants to sit down with your friends 345 00:13:26,264 --> 00:13:31,101 {\an8}and tell them that they think your relationship isn't good, 346 00:13:31,102 --> 00:13:33,895 {\an8}and it's like, this is gonna be a hard night. 347 00:13:33,896 --> 00:13:38,025 {\an8}I'm, like, super apprehensive about this whole intervention. 348 00:13:38,026 --> 00:13:40,402 {\an8}Like, this is the one thing 349 00:13:40,403 --> 00:13:42,612 {\an8}that could actually ruin our friendship. 350 00:13:42,613 --> 00:13:44,740 {\an8}I just hope she doesn't throw me overboard. 351 00:13:44,741 --> 00:13:46,825 {\an8}This outfit is heavy. 352 00:13:46,826 --> 00:13:48,827 {\an8}I will sink to the bottom. 353 00:13:48,828 --> 00:13:51,371 {\an8}This intervention just isn't sitting right with me. 354 00:13:51,372 --> 00:13:53,332 {\an8}Beau and I aren't in the best space right now, 355 00:13:53,333 --> 00:13:55,375 {\an8}so I just should probably keep my [bleep] mouth shut 356 00:13:55,376 --> 00:13:58,003 {\an8}and just let everybody else handle everything. 357 00:13:58,004 --> 00:13:59,212 {\an8}I'm sweating. 358 00:13:59,213 --> 00:14:01,256 {\an8}My bowels are watery. 359 00:14:01,257 --> 00:14:03,008 {\an8}I'm so scared. I'm so nervous. 360 00:14:03,009 --> 00:14:04,343 {\an8}I'm not ready for this. 361 00:14:04,344 --> 00:14:09,599 {\an8}Stassi might dark-passenge, so all hands on deck. 362 00:14:10,975 --> 00:14:12,893 This is [bleep] cool. 363 00:14:12,894 --> 00:14:14,853 Did they tell us which part of the boat's haunted? 364 00:14:21,527 --> 00:14:24,363 I have enough ghost energy in my home, OK? 365 00:14:25,865 --> 00:14:27,699 Why do we feel the need to, like, be quiet right now? 366 00:14:27,700 --> 00:14:28,909 I don't know. 367 00:14:28,910 --> 00:14:30,368 'Cause it's-- because no one's here? 368 00:14:30,369 --> 00:14:31,995 - We're scared of the journey. - We're scared of the ghosts. 369 00:14:31,996 --> 00:14:33,038 We don't want to wake up the ghosts. 370 00:14:33,039 --> 00:14:34,039 No, we're not. 371 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:35,373 We're excited. 372 00:14:35,374 --> 00:14:37,084 We're gonna start with drinks. 373 00:14:37,085 --> 00:14:38,877 {\an8}Then we're gonna do a ghost tour, 374 00:14:38,878 --> 00:14:40,420 {\an8}and then we're gonna have dinner. 375 00:14:40,421 --> 00:14:44,216 {\an8}So it's basically the structure of a horror movie, 376 00:14:44,217 --> 00:14:46,927 {\an8}except instead of dying, we then eat. 377 00:14:46,928 --> 00:14:48,095 Wow. 378 00:14:48,096 --> 00:14:49,221 This is really cool. 379 00:14:49,222 --> 00:14:51,056 {\an8}I don't want to see a ghost. 380 00:14:51,057 --> 00:14:52,682 {\an8}Like, I want to be unbothered. 381 00:14:52,683 --> 00:14:54,976 {\an8}And I don't need a ghost throwing me off my game. 382 00:14:54,977 --> 00:14:57,312 {\an8}I gotta stay focused. 383 00:14:58,689 --> 00:14:59,731 Cool. 384 00:15:01,192 --> 00:15:03,235 Welcome in to the Number 3 speakeasy. 385 00:15:03,236 --> 00:15:05,070 Kind of sneaks up on you a little bit, doesn't it? 386 00:15:05,071 --> 00:15:06,446 It does. It does. 387 00:15:08,157 --> 00:15:09,658 Ooh. 388 00:15:09,659 --> 00:15:10,742 Cheers, y'all. 389 00:15:10,743 --> 00:15:12,035 Happy holidays. 390 00:15:12,036 --> 00:15:14,204 {\an8}Ladies and gentlemen, I am so excited 391 00:15:14,205 --> 00:15:15,831 {\an8}to have you with us this evening 392 00:15:15,832 --> 00:15:17,249 {\an8}for a very special tour 393 00:15:17,250 --> 00:15:18,583 {\an8}down through the lower decks of the ship. 394 00:15:18,584 --> 00:15:21,086 Now, I've been walking these decks for a very long time, 395 00:15:21,087 --> 00:15:22,587 and here's the deal about the dead. 396 00:15:22,588 --> 00:15:23,797 They're around you all the time. 397 00:15:23,798 --> 00:15:24,798 Don't be afraid of them. 398 00:15:27,718 --> 00:15:29,469 So let's begin. This way. 399 00:15:41,691 --> 00:15:45,152 It sounds like-- like scary priests. 400 00:15:46,612 --> 00:15:48,947 {\an8}Georgia might be praying to keep the ghosts away, 401 00:15:48,948 --> 00:15:51,449 {\an8}but we really need her prayers for this friendervention. 402 00:15:54,412 --> 00:15:56,873 Georgia, you're making this creepier. 403 00:15:57,623 --> 00:15:59,499 Now, this room intimidates me a little bit. 404 00:15:59,500 --> 00:16:01,459 I was walking backward on a tour, 405 00:16:01,460 --> 00:16:03,211 and turned and saw a man... 406 00:16:03,212 --> 00:16:04,672 Run along the catwalk. 407 00:16:08,301 --> 00:16:10,135 Oh, I see shadow people down here all the time. 408 00:16:11,846 --> 00:16:13,180 It's a vibrational thing. 409 00:16:13,181 --> 00:16:15,473 They're vibrating at a certain level, and so am I. 410 00:16:15,474 --> 00:16:18,435 I've never heard somebody say that about a--I love that. 411 00:16:18,436 --> 00:16:19,811 {\an8}I really love the Titanic. 412 00:16:19,812 --> 00:16:22,522 {\an8}And so to just, like, be underneath a boat 413 00:16:22,523 --> 00:16:24,983 {\an8}and, like, see all the, like, nooks and crannies, 414 00:16:24,984 --> 00:16:26,234 {\an8}and hear all the stories-- 415 00:16:26,235 --> 00:16:28,778 {\an8}this spooky shit is in my DNA. 416 00:16:28,779 --> 00:16:31,824 {\an8}It's perfect for the New Orleans girl in me. 417 00:16:32,700 --> 00:16:35,244 {\an8}You're not gonna get possessed by the devil. 418 00:16:38,706 --> 00:16:41,208 Where are we going? In the most haunted? 419 00:16:41,209 --> 00:16:42,459 It is. 420 00:16:42,460 --> 00:16:43,960 A man went berserk in a tourist class cabin 421 00:16:43,961 --> 00:16:45,670 with an axe... 422 00:16:45,671 --> 00:16:47,881 And hacked his six members of his family... 423 00:16:47,882 --> 00:16:49,966 Rude! To death. 424 00:16:49,967 --> 00:16:51,801 Wow. This way. 425 00:16:51,802 --> 00:16:53,011 OK. 426 00:16:53,012 --> 00:16:55,096 Wait, where did he get the axe from? 427 00:16:55,097 --> 00:16:56,765 Oh, my God. 428 00:16:56,766 --> 00:16:59,476 Look at this. 429 00:16:59,477 --> 00:17:00,810 You can stay in this room? 430 00:17:00,811 --> 00:17:01,978 You sure can. 431 00:17:01,979 --> 00:17:03,480 It's very active in this room. 432 00:17:03,481 --> 00:17:05,524 People get touched. People feel a cold spot. 433 00:17:05,525 --> 00:17:08,777 People sit down on the bed while you're sleeping. 434 00:17:08,778 --> 00:17:09,778 I mean, my always thinking, 435 00:17:09,779 --> 00:17:11,071 it's like, sleeping in a bed with ghosts 436 00:17:11,072 --> 00:17:12,364 just makes me think of Ghostbusters, 437 00:17:12,365 --> 00:17:14,491 where it's like the ghost comes in for a sexy time. 438 00:17:14,492 --> 00:17:15,617 Yeah. I'm like-- 439 00:17:15,618 --> 00:17:16,493 Oh, yeah. 440 00:17:16,494 --> 00:17:17,994 All right, I'm OK with that. 441 00:17:17,995 --> 00:17:19,663 {\an8}I mean, if I was gonna get haunted, 442 00:17:19,664 --> 00:17:22,999 {\an8}I would definitely want spiritos [bleep]. 443 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:25,794 {\an8}That's spirit [bleep] in Latin. 444 00:17:25,795 --> 00:17:27,671 {\an8}Just, oh, God, awful thought. 445 00:17:27,672 --> 00:17:28,713 {\an8}You don't even need lube. 446 00:17:28,714 --> 00:17:30,383 {\an8}There's ectoplasm. 447 00:17:31,717 --> 00:17:33,260 Guys, I'm-- 448 00:17:33,261 --> 00:17:34,553 She does have goosebumps. 449 00:17:34,554 --> 00:17:35,595 I'm dying. 450 00:17:37,181 --> 00:17:39,391 No, go. See, if you are doing that, 451 00:17:39,392 --> 00:17:41,518 stop doing that, because I'm scared. 452 00:17:41,519 --> 00:17:43,228 You hear that? You hear it? 453 00:17:43,229 --> 00:17:44,354 I didn't hear anything, Georgia. 454 00:17:44,355 --> 00:17:45,313 What are you talking about? 455 00:17:45,314 --> 00:17:47,065 OK. 456 00:17:51,737 --> 00:17:53,572 Oh. It's romantic. 457 00:17:53,573 --> 00:17:56,616 It is so Titanic. Bogie, the violini. 458 00:17:56,617 --> 00:17:58,076 The violins. Wow. 459 00:17:58,077 --> 00:18:00,912 This is really giving Titanic on its final night. 460 00:18:00,913 --> 00:18:03,081 If it was going down, I'd be happy to be 461 00:18:03,082 --> 00:18:04,291 going down with you. 462 00:18:04,292 --> 00:18:06,586 Well, this is--aw. 463 00:18:07,962 --> 00:18:09,587 We can do, like, a little waltz? 464 00:18:09,588 --> 00:18:11,172 - I don't know what I'm doing. - I know. 465 00:18:11,173 --> 00:18:12,257 I'm gonna lead you. 466 00:18:12,258 --> 00:18:14,759 Just-- 467 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:16,595 I mean, the music is playing, 468 00:18:16,596 --> 00:18:19,098 and I'm like, wow, this is your life. 469 00:18:20,016 --> 00:18:23,602 {\an8}We have a wonderful family and a wonderful life together. 470 00:18:23,603 --> 00:18:25,520 {\an8}And, yeah, we [bleep] fight sometimes, 471 00:18:25,521 --> 00:18:27,439 {\an8}and we get annoyed with each other sometimes. 472 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:29,524 {\an8}But, like, that's called being together 473 00:18:29,525 --> 00:18:31,276 {\an8}for, like, eight years, OK? 474 00:18:31,277 --> 00:18:34,404 {\an8}Like, that's gonna happen. 475 00:18:34,405 --> 00:18:35,822 {\an8}Smile and look good. 476 00:18:35,823 --> 00:18:37,449 {\an8}The closer we get to dinner, 477 00:18:37,450 --> 00:18:38,659 {\an8}it's like, the dread is building. 478 00:18:41,454 --> 00:18:43,288 {\an8}And of course, I'm like, 479 00:18:43,289 --> 00:18:45,290 {\an8}maybe we shouldn't have this dinner. 480 00:18:45,291 --> 00:18:46,624 {\an8}Are you OK? 481 00:18:46,625 --> 00:18:48,418 {\an8}Stassi and Beau are waltzing. 482 00:18:48,419 --> 00:18:50,295 {\an8}A band playing. 483 00:18:50,296 --> 00:18:52,505 {\an8}It feels like a scene from the Titanic 484 00:18:52,506 --> 00:18:54,467 {\an8}before it hits the glacier. 485 00:19:03,934 --> 00:19:05,143 Something to that degree. 486 00:19:06,729 --> 00:19:08,688 And then I'm gonna be like, bleh. 487 00:19:08,689 --> 00:19:10,190 No, no. 488 00:19:10,191 --> 00:19:11,483 Nothing to say after that. 489 00:19:11,484 --> 00:19:13,360 {\an8}We are past the point of doubt, 490 00:19:13,361 --> 00:19:15,695 {\an8}so Kristina cannot back out on me now. 491 00:19:15,696 --> 00:19:17,655 No one better [bleep] chicken out. 492 00:19:26,874 --> 00:19:28,583 Hey, do you guys want to sit down? 493 00:19:28,584 --> 00:19:29,918 I'm starving. 494 00:19:29,919 --> 00:19:32,754 {\an8}Let me just sit next to my e-wife. 495 00:19:32,755 --> 00:19:33,922 {\an8}Whoa! 496 00:19:33,923 --> 00:19:35,256 {\an8}Hi! 497 00:19:35,257 --> 00:19:37,050 {\an8}Gorgeous. 498 00:19:37,051 --> 00:19:38,468 {\an8}Hi, Teddy. 499 00:19:40,721 --> 00:19:43,014 {\an8}I have an announcement. 500 00:19:43,015 --> 00:19:47,268 {\an8}So we discussed this last night, and I said, 501 00:19:47,269 --> 00:19:48,728 {\an8}what do you think? 502 00:19:48,729 --> 00:19:49,688 The music. 503 00:19:49,689 --> 00:19:50,939 Yeah, thank you for that. 504 00:19:50,940 --> 00:19:53,358 What do you think about telling the name? 505 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:54,901 Yay! 506 00:19:54,902 --> 00:19:57,320 And she said, tell them the [bleep] name. 507 00:20:00,408 --> 00:20:01,575 Oh, my God. 508 00:20:04,995 --> 00:20:06,037 {\an8}OK, OK. 509 00:20:06,038 --> 00:20:07,122 OK, OK, OK. 510 00:20:07,123 --> 00:20:08,748 So as you guys know... 511 00:20:10,251 --> 00:20:11,251 This music. 512 00:20:11,252 --> 00:20:12,711 It's, like, right on cue. 513 00:20:14,088 --> 00:20:16,131 I have been, like, very, like, 514 00:20:16,132 --> 00:20:17,674 scared about having a baby because-- 515 00:20:17,675 --> 00:20:18,925 well, for lots of reasons, 516 00:20:18,926 --> 00:20:22,220 but mostly because I was like, it's her... 517 00:20:22,221 --> 00:20:24,013 - It's so dramatic. - I'm talking. 518 00:20:24,014 --> 00:20:24,932 Um... 519 00:20:26,809 --> 00:20:28,143 No, keep going. 520 00:20:28,144 --> 00:20:30,770 So I am like, it's her egg. 521 00:20:30,771 --> 00:20:32,355 It's the donor. It's not me. 522 00:20:32,356 --> 00:20:33,731 I'm not genetically connected, 523 00:20:33,732 --> 00:20:36,317 so she still wants to keep pushing the agenda 524 00:20:36,318 --> 00:20:38,403 of, like, this is your baby, too. 525 00:20:38,404 --> 00:20:40,739 So my mom's maiden name is Bonneau, 526 00:20:40,740 --> 00:20:42,740 B-O-N-N-E-A-U. 527 00:20:42,741 --> 00:20:45,076 So the official name will be Bonneau, 528 00:20:45,077 --> 00:20:49,372 but her nickname, but her "name," is gonna be Beau. 529 00:20:49,373 --> 00:20:50,999 Oh! 530 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:52,709 Oh, my God! 531 00:20:52,710 --> 00:20:55,086 What? - Wait. 532 00:20:55,087 --> 00:20:56,254 I love it! 533 00:20:56,255 --> 00:20:58,256 That's crazy. 534 00:20:58,257 --> 00:21:00,049 I love that. 535 00:21:00,050 --> 00:21:02,093 I might cry. Wow. 536 00:21:02,094 --> 00:21:03,595 Baby Beau. 537 00:21:03,596 --> 00:21:06,514 {\an8}I was not at all expecting Teddy and Taylor's baby 538 00:21:06,515 --> 00:21:09,976 {\an8}to be named after me. 539 00:21:09,977 --> 00:21:14,481 {\an8}It's shocking and massively sweet. 540 00:21:14,482 --> 00:21:16,191 {\an8}I feel very honored. 541 00:21:16,192 --> 00:21:19,819 {\an8}The least they could do would be to combine our names-- 542 00:21:19,820 --> 00:21:22,740 {\an8}Steau, Bowie. 543 00:21:24,283 --> 00:21:25,408 Are you serious? 544 00:21:25,409 --> 00:21:26,951 Yeah. 545 00:21:26,952 --> 00:21:30,038 Knowing you, Beau, and knowing how wonderful you are, 546 00:21:30,039 --> 00:21:31,331 and you have such integrity, 547 00:21:31,332 --> 00:21:32,790 and you're such a stand-up person, 548 00:21:32,791 --> 00:21:34,334 it's just, like, befitting that we would 549 00:21:34,335 --> 00:21:35,835 put our baby on this track. 550 00:21:35,836 --> 00:21:38,421 So we love you. 551 00:21:38,422 --> 00:21:41,216 It's a massive compliment. It's an honor. 552 00:21:41,217 --> 00:21:42,967 {\an8}I couldn't have asked 553 00:21:42,968 --> 00:21:45,136 {\an8}for a better reaction, but now I'm nervous. 554 00:21:45,137 --> 00:21:47,138 {\an8}I'm like, Beau, do you think we named her after you? 555 00:21:47,139 --> 00:21:50,433 {\an8}You know, cause, like, if you want to think that, that's OK. 556 00:21:50,434 --> 00:21:52,685 {\an8}But, like, I also have an Uncle Beau, you know? 557 00:21:52,686 --> 00:21:54,062 {\an8}Do I have to, like, explain that? 558 00:21:54,063 --> 00:21:56,147 {\an8}Do I have--I'm just-- you know what? 559 00:21:56,148 --> 00:21:59,067 {\an8}Just, I think it's good, right? It's fine. 560 00:21:59,068 --> 00:22:00,652 Cheers to Baby Beau. 561 00:22:00,653 --> 00:22:03,279 Cheers to Baby Beau! Yes! 562 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:04,697 Baby Beau, look at Teddy. 563 00:22:04,698 --> 00:22:06,324 Cheers. - Everyone tap the pad. 564 00:22:06,325 --> 00:22:07,826 Tap the pad. Tap. 565 00:22:07,827 --> 00:22:09,911 Oh, thank you very much. 566 00:22:09,912 --> 00:22:11,037 Thank you. 567 00:22:11,038 --> 00:22:12,873 Did anyone get the vegetarian option? 568 00:22:15,501 --> 00:22:16,543 {\an8}Georgia did. 569 00:22:16,544 --> 00:22:18,586 {\an8}Georgia got the-- 570 00:22:18,587 --> 00:22:21,172 Oh, my God, I'm sorry. I didn't know. 571 00:22:21,173 --> 00:22:22,382 Proud. 572 00:22:22,383 --> 00:22:25,093 But I also love the word loser, and I-- 573 00:22:25,094 --> 00:22:27,095 I want to take that right back 574 00:22:27,096 --> 00:22:29,430 to being able to say it without people getting 575 00:22:29,431 --> 00:22:31,599 massively offended by it. 576 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:33,644 {\an8}It's just a fun word. 577 00:22:36,689 --> 00:22:38,731 {\an8}But I also do think it's weird that 578 00:22:38,732 --> 00:22:42,027 you and Rob are just totally fine. 579 00:22:43,112 --> 00:22:44,195 Me and Georgia? 580 00:22:44,196 --> 00:22:45,572 Yes. 581 00:22:45,573 --> 00:22:48,908 {\an8}What are you doing? 582 00:22:48,909 --> 00:22:50,577 {\an8}Here we go. 583 00:22:50,578 --> 00:22:52,078 Like, the things that you said to her 584 00:22:52,079 --> 00:22:53,746 at the volleyball, or-- 585 00:22:53,747 --> 00:22:55,748 I said Play-Doh. That was it. Dodgeball. 586 00:22:55,749 --> 00:22:58,334 {\an8}I didn't like that behavior. I have to say it again. 587 00:22:58,335 --> 00:23:00,211 {\an8}Because I don't see any intention, 588 00:23:00,212 --> 00:23:01,504 she needs to know. 589 00:23:01,505 --> 00:23:03,548 Like we are literally in kindergarten. 590 00:23:03,549 --> 00:23:05,091 All right, no, it's not kindergarten. 591 00:23:05,092 --> 00:23:06,718 I'll save you some Play-Doh in kindergarten 592 00:23:06,719 --> 00:23:08,136 when it's your [bleep] turn. 593 00:23:08,137 --> 00:23:09,095 It's [bleep] annoying. 594 00:23:09,096 --> 00:23:11,014 I'm just gonna say that right now. 595 00:23:11,015 --> 00:23:13,892 It's obvious to everyone that you and Georgia 596 00:23:13,893 --> 00:23:16,060 don't [bleep] like each other! 597 00:23:16,061 --> 00:23:17,729 The way that you spoke to my sister, 598 00:23:17,730 --> 00:23:19,439 I would have never spoken to your sister like that. 599 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:20,815 Bro, and trust me, I-- all I said was 600 00:23:20,816 --> 00:23:22,650 I'll save you some Play-Doh. 601 00:23:22,651 --> 00:23:24,569 I know, but it was so just douchey. 602 00:23:24,570 --> 00:23:26,404 I was standing up, and I was--she said-- 603 00:23:26,405 --> 00:23:29,157 And you were standing up. I felt you--I felt you, and I-- 604 00:23:29,158 --> 00:23:31,242 I was upset because she--she's telling me 605 00:23:31,243 --> 00:23:32,535 we were all in kindergarten. 606 00:23:32,536 --> 00:23:34,662 My sister doesn't sit there and talk shit about people. 607 00:23:34,663 --> 00:23:36,789 She said, we're all in kindergarten. 608 00:23:36,790 --> 00:23:39,834 I'm not gonna go out of my way to [bleep] hurt her 609 00:23:39,835 --> 00:23:41,753 because she's your sister. 610 00:23:41,754 --> 00:23:44,756 Rob 100% verbally attacked my sister. 611 00:23:44,757 --> 00:23:47,925 {\an8}It's like, what is-- what are you thinking? 612 00:23:47,926 --> 00:23:49,886 {\an8}Right now, everything that he is doing 613 00:23:49,887 --> 00:23:53,640 {\an8}is showing me that he does not want a friendship with me. 614 00:23:53,641 --> 00:23:55,224 Yeah, well, I guess you break boundaries 615 00:23:55,225 --> 00:23:57,602 and trust with me with the conversation with her 616 00:23:57,603 --> 00:23:58,645 so you can tell Georgi. 617 00:23:58,646 --> 00:24:00,063 You told three of us-- 618 00:24:00,064 --> 00:24:02,357 - OK, stop it. - But that's the point. 619 00:24:02,358 --> 00:24:03,608 You're the one who decided to say something. 620 00:24:03,609 --> 00:24:04,984 Stop it. You had a [bleep] choice. 621 00:24:04,985 --> 00:24:06,944 I told Nick and I told Teddy. - But that should be-- 622 00:24:06,945 --> 00:24:08,404 everything should be out in the [bleep] open. 623 00:24:08,405 --> 00:24:09,948 And they don't have anything to [bleep] do with Georgia. 624 00:24:09,949 --> 00:24:12,700 So I am able to have a goddamn honest conversation. 625 00:24:12,701 --> 00:24:13,868 I didn't know it was gonna be a private-- 626 00:24:13,869 --> 00:24:14,952 We're trying to mend our friendship. 627 00:24:14,953 --> 00:24:16,204 You were like, don't tell anybody this. 628 00:24:16,205 --> 00:24:17,956 You weren't telling me something personal 629 00:24:17,957 --> 00:24:20,500 about you and Stassi and I went and [bleep] talked about it. 630 00:24:20,501 --> 00:24:22,001 {\an8}What the [bleep] is happening? 631 00:24:22,002 --> 00:24:23,670 {\an8}Take this attention off of me and [bleep] put it on them. 632 00:24:23,671 --> 00:24:25,213 {\an8}I'm ready for the [bleep] intervention, guys. 633 00:24:25,214 --> 00:24:26,297 {\an8}Start. Go, go. 634 00:24:27,341 --> 00:24:29,217 You broke my trust, man... 635 00:24:29,218 --> 00:24:30,593 Bro. - And I'm done. 636 00:24:35,724 --> 00:24:38,184 You're an amazing godfather. You're an amazing person. 637 00:24:38,185 --> 00:24:39,978 But we are just not where we're gonna be. 638 00:24:39,979 --> 00:24:41,354 And I don't think we're gonna grow 639 00:24:41,355 --> 00:24:43,106 anytime soon as friends, 640 00:24:43,107 --> 00:24:44,982 especially just how your actions are. 641 00:24:44,983 --> 00:24:46,651 My actions? Your actions. 642 00:24:46,652 --> 00:24:48,319 You're the one who just went behind my back 643 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:49,988 and broke my trust. 644 00:24:49,989 --> 00:24:51,197 Fine, dude. Fine. 645 00:24:51,198 --> 00:24:52,156 {\an8}Fine. 646 00:24:52,157 --> 00:24:54,200 {\an8}Like, I'm not gonna be the person 647 00:24:54,201 --> 00:24:57,578 {\an8}to work for this if you're not working back. 648 00:24:57,579 --> 00:24:58,997 {\an8}I'm not doing things against you. 649 00:24:58,998 --> 00:25:01,332 {\an8}I'm on both you and Stassi's team. 650 00:25:01,333 --> 00:25:04,127 {\an8}If you don't want me here, I'm not gonna beg to be here. 651 00:25:04,128 --> 00:25:06,754 {\an8}I don't beg to be in anybody's [bleep] life. 652 00:25:06,755 --> 00:25:10,383 I just don't want to deal with shit like this. 653 00:25:10,384 --> 00:25:11,843 Cool. Me either. 654 00:25:11,844 --> 00:25:13,261 I don't want to deal with shit like this. 655 00:25:13,262 --> 00:25:14,679 I don't want to deal with the way you [bleep] 656 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:16,180 have been speaking to me recently. 657 00:25:16,181 --> 00:25:19,350 In our friendship, I defend you all the [bleep] time. 658 00:25:19,351 --> 00:25:20,893 Defend me to who? 659 00:25:20,894 --> 00:25:22,270 Everybody that's talking about you. 660 00:25:22,271 --> 00:25:24,272 No one has a [bleep] issue with me. 661 00:25:24,273 --> 00:25:26,315 And if they do have a [bleep] issue with me, 662 00:25:26,316 --> 00:25:28,067 speak up [bleep] now. 663 00:25:31,363 --> 00:25:32,780 {\an8}What are you doing, Rob? 664 00:25:32,781 --> 00:25:34,866 {\an8}We had a plan. 665 00:25:34,867 --> 00:25:36,242 {\an8}We were all on the same page, 666 00:25:36,243 --> 00:25:37,702 {\an8}and now you're talking about wanting 667 00:25:37,703 --> 00:25:39,287 {\an8}to defend Beau against anything else. 668 00:25:39,288 --> 00:25:40,621 {\an8}Like, are you about to throw me and everyone else 669 00:25:40,622 --> 00:25:42,248 {\an8}under the bus? 670 00:25:47,296 --> 00:25:48,546 I defend you all the [bleep] time. 671 00:25:48,547 --> 00:25:49,714 Defend me to who? 672 00:25:49,715 --> 00:25:51,507 {\an8}W-H-O, who? 673 00:25:51,508 --> 00:25:52,675 {\an8}I'm not naming [bleep] names, dude. 674 00:25:52,676 --> 00:25:55,011 {\an8}They'll cut it out! 675 00:25:55,012 --> 00:25:57,096 {\an8}This night was unpredictable. 676 00:25:57,097 --> 00:25:58,514 {\an8}But I said I was gonna be the one 677 00:25:58,515 --> 00:26:00,057 {\an8}to kick off this conversation, 678 00:26:00,058 --> 00:26:02,226 {\an8}and now I feel like I have to get us back on the path. 679 00:26:03,562 --> 00:26:05,980 Now you're calling me like I'm some [bleep] villain. 680 00:26:05,981 --> 00:26:07,982 Yeah, I look like-- I have a [bleep] turtleneck on. 681 00:26:07,983 --> 00:26:09,692 I'm sure I look like an asshole right now. 682 00:26:09,693 --> 00:26:11,903 But tell me who. - I'm not gonna say. 683 00:26:11,904 --> 00:26:13,237 - Which is-- - So it's [bleep] irrelevant. 684 00:26:13,238 --> 00:26:15,364 I'm not gonna say. - Can I--can I interject? 685 00:26:15,365 --> 00:26:17,450 I've literally said nothing this entire time. 686 00:26:17,451 --> 00:26:21,370 I feel like so much of the past eight weeks 687 00:26:21,371 --> 00:26:25,374 I've been re-immersing myself with people that I hadn't seen 688 00:26:25,375 --> 00:26:30,004 in some time, and obviously, we've not spoke for some time, 689 00:26:30,005 --> 00:26:34,217 so to just come back to this is upsetting. 690 00:26:34,218 --> 00:26:35,384 This makes me sad. 691 00:26:35,385 --> 00:26:37,887 And, yeah, sometimes you do need a break, 692 00:26:37,888 --> 00:26:40,807 but to also come back and learn about some things 693 00:26:40,808 --> 00:26:42,475 I've missed along the way, especially between, 694 00:26:42,476 --> 00:26:43,685 like, the two of you-- 695 00:26:44,853 --> 00:26:46,395 I wasn't there in Italy, 696 00:26:46,396 --> 00:26:49,608 but I heard that there was a fight between you guys. 697 00:26:51,735 --> 00:26:57,573 And a word that has rattled so much of us-- 698 00:26:57,574 --> 00:26:58,658 Divorce. Divorce. 699 00:26:58,659 --> 00:27:00,701 - Yeah. - And I know, like, 700 00:27:00,702 --> 00:27:02,537 we say things that we don't mean, 701 00:27:02,538 --> 00:27:04,288 but I was not aware of that. 702 00:27:04,289 --> 00:27:07,792 And then I've had conversations with you about the struggles 703 00:27:07,793 --> 00:27:09,293 that you guys have been going through. 704 00:27:09,294 --> 00:27:12,713 And it's like, I don't want to be an alarmist 705 00:27:12,714 --> 00:27:16,509 and say that, like, oh, my God, the D word is imminent. 706 00:27:16,510 --> 00:27:20,346 {\an8}Listen, I get a lot of these people at this table 707 00:27:20,347 --> 00:27:21,639 {\an8}have been divorced-- 708 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:24,058 {\an8}Katie, Taylor, Georgi-- 709 00:27:24,059 --> 00:27:28,938 {\an8}but like, stop projecting that shit onto me and Beau. 710 00:27:28,939 --> 00:27:33,151 {\an8}This stuff with me and Beau is not divorce stuff. 711 00:27:33,152 --> 00:27:35,862 {\an8}This is a married couple that's just, like, 712 00:27:35,863 --> 00:27:37,613 {\an8}going through something right now. 713 00:27:37,614 --> 00:27:40,157 {\an8}And we will work through that. 714 00:27:40,158 --> 00:27:42,827 {\an8}My wife and I, we are good. 715 00:27:42,828 --> 00:27:45,454 {\an8}God forbid it's like, you talk about anything-- 716 00:27:45,455 --> 00:27:48,165 {\an8}if Stass and I have just a small little issue 717 00:27:48,166 --> 00:27:50,042 {\an8}and I tell them, are they gonna make it 718 00:27:50,043 --> 00:27:53,337 {\an8}something that's massively bigger than it really is? 719 00:27:53,338 --> 00:27:57,633 {\an8}This is not how I wanted to end this season. 720 00:27:57,634 --> 00:27:59,051 Let me be a cautionary tale. 721 00:27:59,052 --> 00:28:01,387 Let her be a cautionary tale-- her, her, him. 722 00:28:01,388 --> 00:28:03,890 Because when you feel like you're roommates, 723 00:28:03,891 --> 00:28:06,767 or when someone's feeling alone at times, 724 00:28:06,768 --> 00:28:08,311 those might be small, insignificant things 725 00:28:08,312 --> 00:28:11,063 in the moment, but they build to bigger things. 726 00:28:11,064 --> 00:28:13,566 If I can just also give, like, an input 727 00:28:13,567 --> 00:28:18,487 also off of that is like, I relate to Beau a lot 728 00:28:18,488 --> 00:28:19,947 in seeing you guys together. 729 00:28:22,284 --> 00:28:25,203 {\an8}What the [bleep] is going on right now? 730 00:28:26,079 --> 00:28:29,081 Him asking for permission to go to Rams games, 731 00:28:29,082 --> 00:28:32,293 I feel that so deeply because I feel that sometimes. 732 00:28:32,294 --> 00:28:34,086 Um-- It's so hard. 733 00:28:34,087 --> 00:28:36,255 And I know, Stassi, I know you're doing things. 734 00:28:36,256 --> 00:28:39,884 I know you're busy, but I'm just saying talk about shit. 735 00:28:39,885 --> 00:28:42,511 You have to, or you're gonna get to a place 736 00:28:42,512 --> 00:28:44,555 where you resent each other. 737 00:28:44,556 --> 00:28:46,474 I--wait, but I-- 738 00:28:46,475 --> 00:28:47,850 Can I just jump on this? 739 00:28:47,851 --> 00:28:50,353 - No, but--sure, yes. - Let me please, please. 740 00:28:50,354 --> 00:28:52,730 I can't believe this is happening. 741 00:28:52,731 --> 00:28:54,398 {\an8}It's like the test shoot all over again, 742 00:28:54,399 --> 00:28:57,109 {\an8}except now Katie and Kristina have joined in. 743 00:28:57,110 --> 00:28:59,195 So, like, in regard to communication, 744 00:28:59,196 --> 00:29:01,989 we have been in the exact same place 745 00:29:01,990 --> 00:29:03,741 that you and Beau have been at times, 746 00:29:03,742 --> 00:29:06,202 where like, Teddy's scared of me, 747 00:29:06,203 --> 00:29:08,037 and I feel like I'm not being heard. 748 00:29:08,038 --> 00:29:13,751 So I'm just saying I understand it from that position. 749 00:29:13,752 --> 00:29:16,712 I know you're sick of me saying this, but I need you to-- 750 00:29:16,713 --> 00:29:17,922 If you bring up therapy again I will literally-- 751 00:29:17,923 --> 00:29:19,590 Therapy. Therapy. 752 00:29:19,591 --> 00:29:21,300 I mean, it really pisses me off, you know. 753 00:29:21,301 --> 00:29:23,928 I am comfortable talking about my relationship 754 00:29:23,929 --> 00:29:27,265 {\an8}with Stassi, but all of them getting together 755 00:29:27,266 --> 00:29:30,434 {\an8}and then bringing this up at the dinner table, 756 00:29:30,435 --> 00:29:31,769 {\an8}it's wild. 757 00:29:31,770 --> 00:29:34,647 {\an8}I wish, going through the divorce 758 00:29:34,648 --> 00:29:35,940 {\an8}that I went through, that-- 759 00:29:35,941 --> 00:29:37,108 not saying that y'all would ever. 760 00:29:37,109 --> 00:29:38,401 We're not even--no. 761 00:29:38,402 --> 00:29:40,361 That's even weird to say. 762 00:29:40,362 --> 00:29:43,614 OK, so the divorce thing, I [bleep] up. That was-- 763 00:29:43,615 --> 00:29:45,199 But did you ever say to-- did you ever say sorry to Beau? 764 00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:46,575 Yes. - You did? 765 00:29:46,576 --> 00:29:49,620 We went into therapy because of the divorce thing. 766 00:29:49,621 --> 00:29:52,123 Everything that they are doing right now, 767 00:29:52,124 --> 00:29:53,708 {\an8}Stassi is not going to listen to this. 768 00:29:53,709 --> 00:29:55,292 {\an8}She's gonna wall up. 769 00:29:55,293 --> 00:29:57,295 {\an8}She's gonna get angry. She's gonna freak out. 770 00:29:57,296 --> 00:29:59,714 {\an8}Whoever planned it, you're a dumb, dumb idiot, 771 00:29:59,715 --> 00:30:01,008 {\an8}and you don't know my wife. 772 00:30:04,678 --> 00:30:07,972 We started this season with things being good, 773 00:30:07,973 --> 00:30:09,265 but Beau was in, like, a bad place. 774 00:30:09,266 --> 00:30:10,307 Yeah. 775 00:30:10,308 --> 00:30:11,684 And then we've all had conversations 776 00:30:11,685 --> 00:30:15,438 with you guys separately about all of these things. 777 00:30:15,439 --> 00:30:17,815 And so we're like, I hope they come back together 778 00:30:17,816 --> 00:30:18,983 and talk about it, but we don't know. 779 00:30:18,984 --> 00:30:20,818 What if it's not therapy? 780 00:30:20,819 --> 00:30:22,987 What if it's just asking how your day was? 781 00:30:22,988 --> 00:30:24,655 Oh, well, no, I think we-- 782 00:30:26,992 --> 00:30:28,492 Well, she knows how my day was 783 00:30:28,493 --> 00:30:30,828 'cause I was with the kids. I was with the kids. 784 00:30:30,829 --> 00:30:31,912 You're not with the kids every day. 785 00:30:31,913 --> 00:30:33,039 - I'm not, but-- - Don't act like-- 786 00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:34,457 that's not fair. - No, no, I'm just saying. 787 00:30:34,458 --> 00:30:35,791 But you know--but you know what I'm doing every day. 788 00:30:35,792 --> 00:30:37,084 No, I don't. 789 00:30:37,085 --> 00:30:38,753 Actually, we don't know actually-- 790 00:30:38,754 --> 00:30:40,504 But that's why you guys need to communicate. 791 00:30:40,505 --> 00:30:43,340 Because at the end of the day, I'm with [bleep] River all day, 792 00:30:43,341 --> 00:30:44,800 and Max comes home from work. 793 00:30:44,801 --> 00:30:47,928 And sometimes, he's so overwhelmed that I can't even 794 00:30:47,929 --> 00:30:51,599 tell him about all the things that overwhelm me for the day. 795 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,185 And he almost makes me feel like my day didn't matter, 796 00:30:54,186 --> 00:30:56,145 but it's like Max doesn't want to hear it. 797 00:30:56,146 --> 00:30:57,188 So we end up going to bed, 798 00:30:57,189 --> 00:30:58,355 and we don't even talk about it. 799 00:30:58,356 --> 00:30:59,690 And then you don't want to let them know 800 00:30:59,691 --> 00:31:00,983 because you don't want to stress out your partner. 801 00:31:00,984 --> 00:31:02,568 Yes, exactly! 802 00:31:02,569 --> 00:31:04,278 And then all of a sudden, then we're living as roommates. 803 00:31:04,279 --> 00:31:07,114 I can feel that Beau's energy is shifting, 804 00:31:07,115 --> 00:31:10,034 {\an8}and my stomach is literally dropping. 805 00:31:10,035 --> 00:31:13,788 {\an8}This is resurfacing stuff that I feel like 806 00:31:13,789 --> 00:31:15,539 {\an8}I already dealt with with Beau. 807 00:31:15,540 --> 00:31:17,541 What you're going through is very similar to what 808 00:31:17,542 --> 00:31:19,168 we're going through-- it's just like the day to day. 809 00:31:19,169 --> 00:31:20,669 Beau does feel this, Stassi, 810 00:31:20,670 --> 00:31:22,713 and this is where I think you need to acknowledge it. 811 00:31:22,714 --> 00:31:25,591 Kristina, I'm around my kids as much as Beau is. 812 00:31:25,592 --> 00:31:26,967 We are-- No, but I'm just saying, 813 00:31:26,968 --> 00:31:28,219 but there's also certain things-- 814 00:31:28,220 --> 00:31:30,096 just--there's also certain things-- 815 00:31:30,097 --> 00:31:31,138 I'm just trying to say-- 816 00:31:31,139 --> 00:31:32,264 No, I think you're trying 817 00:31:32,265 --> 00:31:33,599 to defend Kristina right now and like-- 818 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:35,351 No, I'm just trying to say to her, everything that 819 00:31:35,352 --> 00:31:37,561 she's--everything she's feeling is valid. 820 00:31:37,562 --> 00:31:39,271 At the end of the day, what this is about 821 00:31:39,272 --> 00:31:41,565 is all of us getting together, telling you two, 822 00:31:41,566 --> 00:31:42,942 we love you both. 823 00:31:42,943 --> 00:31:44,235 We want you both to be good, 824 00:31:44,236 --> 00:31:45,945 as good as you possibly could be. 825 00:31:45,946 --> 00:31:47,154 We want you to communicate. 826 00:31:47,155 --> 00:31:48,781 We want you to be good. 827 00:31:53,370 --> 00:31:57,248 The fact that you guys, like, had this 828 00:31:57,249 --> 00:32:02,837 [bleep] intervention, like, 829 00:32:02,838 --> 00:32:05,631 that's [bleep] weird to me. 830 00:32:07,884 --> 00:32:09,552 It's all out of love, Stassi. 831 00:32:09,553 --> 00:32:12,430 I'm doing the best that I can. 832 00:32:12,431 --> 00:32:13,764 It's the best that you can, 833 00:32:13,765 --> 00:32:17,144 but it's also--it's-- it's not good enough for me. 834 00:32:19,354 --> 00:32:22,440 It's all you. It's all you. 835 00:32:22,441 --> 00:32:24,108 And I feel like you're missing me. 836 00:32:24,109 --> 00:32:25,484 You're missing the things that I need 837 00:32:25,485 --> 00:32:28,237 because you're so focused on getting out of the mud 838 00:32:28,238 --> 00:32:30,364 with where you've been. 839 00:32:30,365 --> 00:32:33,826 You see the word family, but you don't see me. 840 00:32:33,827 --> 00:32:35,786 It's like just family. 841 00:32:37,622 --> 00:32:40,207 You see your kids, you see us... 842 00:32:40,208 --> 00:32:42,960 I'm gonna cry. 843 00:32:42,961 --> 00:32:45,713 But you don't see me. 844 00:32:53,805 --> 00:32:55,347 {\an8}It's all you. 845 00:32:55,348 --> 00:32:57,433 {\an8}You see your kids, you see us... 846 00:32:57,434 --> 00:33:00,102 {\an8}I'm gonna cry. 847 00:33:00,103 --> 00:33:03,022 {\an8}But you don't see me. 848 00:33:03,023 --> 00:33:07,067 I know you love me, but I-- 849 00:33:07,068 --> 00:33:10,154 I don't feel like I have my trust fall partner, 850 00:33:10,155 --> 00:33:11,489 you know? Does that make sense? 851 00:33:11,490 --> 00:33:13,199 It's like, I feel like if I fell backwards, 852 00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:16,076 you wouldn't catch me. 853 00:33:17,746 --> 00:33:21,207 This is very painful to watch, 854 00:33:21,208 --> 00:33:23,626 {\an8}and I hate that this friendervention 855 00:33:23,627 --> 00:33:25,127 {\an8}has caused this. 856 00:33:25,128 --> 00:33:26,670 {\an8}But I think this is the kind of communication 857 00:33:26,671 --> 00:33:28,005 {\an8}that they need to have. 858 00:33:28,006 --> 00:33:31,383 {\an8}They need to put it all on the table and [bleep] have it out. 859 00:33:31,384 --> 00:33:33,636 The fact that you say that I can't catch you-- 860 00:33:33,637 --> 00:33:35,846 - No, it's just-- - When I make it my [bleep]-- 861 00:33:35,847 --> 00:33:37,014 {\an8}I know, I know, but-- 862 00:33:37,015 --> 00:33:38,516 {\an8}Anyone I love, I catch you. 863 00:33:38,517 --> 00:33:41,185 Like, what do you want? What more? 864 00:33:41,186 --> 00:33:44,772 What is it that you want? - Give me a kiss. 865 00:33:44,773 --> 00:33:46,398 I think he's just saying he needs just 866 00:33:46,399 --> 00:33:48,776 a little more for himself and for you to be like, 867 00:33:48,777 --> 00:33:51,320 yeah, you go do something for yourself today, babe. 868 00:33:51,321 --> 00:33:53,614 Kiss, smack on the ass. 869 00:33:53,615 --> 00:33:56,367 That's what I've been trying to do. 870 00:33:56,368 --> 00:33:59,703 - OK. - The best that I possibly can. 871 00:33:59,704 --> 00:34:01,538 {\an8}Did I... 872 00:34:01,539 --> 00:34:02,831 {\an8}- Did you succeed? - Impress you? 873 00:34:02,832 --> 00:34:04,875 {\an8}You did. You did. 874 00:34:04,876 --> 00:34:05,960 This was lovely. 875 00:34:05,961 --> 00:34:07,336 I don't socialize. 876 00:34:07,337 --> 00:34:09,046 We do socialize. You do. 877 00:34:09,047 --> 00:34:10,422 I do. - I do-- 878 00:34:10,423 --> 00:34:12,675 We both socialize in our own way. 879 00:34:12,676 --> 00:34:15,386 Why are we all acting like we don't socialize? 880 00:34:15,387 --> 00:34:16,804 Because a lot of the times when I-- 881 00:34:16,805 --> 00:34:18,138 We socialize differently. 882 00:34:18,139 --> 00:34:19,390 A lot of the times when I want 883 00:34:19,391 --> 00:34:21,392 to go socialize, a lot of the times 884 00:34:21,393 --> 00:34:22,893 when I want to go socialize-- 885 00:34:22,894 --> 00:34:24,728 When do you not socialize that you want to? 886 00:34:24,729 --> 00:34:26,605 There are times when you're not able 887 00:34:26,606 --> 00:34:28,065 to take care of the kids because 888 00:34:28,066 --> 00:34:31,570 are you able to do dinner and put them down both to bed? 889 00:34:33,989 --> 00:34:35,906 If the roles were [bleep] reversed, 890 00:34:35,907 --> 00:34:38,575 {\an8}this conversation would never be happening. 891 00:34:38,576 --> 00:34:40,828 {\an8}If it was a man standing here, 892 00:34:40,829 --> 00:34:43,414 {\an8}this conversation wouldn't be happening. 893 00:34:43,415 --> 00:34:45,332 When I did ask, I'm-- 894 00:34:45,333 --> 00:34:47,167 I'm gonna--oh, you look at--oh, 895 00:34:47,168 --> 00:34:49,128 you have that proud look. - Yeah, I do. 896 00:34:49,129 --> 00:34:50,713 Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey. Hey, stop. 897 00:34:50,714 --> 00:34:52,506 - Beau, like-- - Stop, listen. 898 00:34:52,507 --> 00:34:53,716 This is the face--you're-- 899 00:34:53,717 --> 00:34:55,759 the face that you gave me right now 900 00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:57,344 is the face that I asked-- - This is the face of someone 901 00:34:57,345 --> 00:34:59,638 who is literally providing... 902 00:34:59,639 --> 00:35:02,266 - And--oh! - Everything. 903 00:35:05,603 --> 00:35:06,562 That's wild. 904 00:35:06,563 --> 00:35:07,896 This is at dinner when you asked me 905 00:35:07,897 --> 00:35:10,107 why he's afraid of you. No, I have asked you. 906 00:35:10,108 --> 00:35:13,277 You've never asked me to do anything in your life 907 00:35:13,278 --> 00:35:14,778 that I said no! I never asked you-- 908 00:35:14,779 --> 00:35:17,823 I've never said no. When have I ever said no? 909 00:35:17,824 --> 00:35:19,325 Name--name a time. 910 00:35:19,326 --> 00:35:22,286 I don't remember because I stopped asking. 911 00:35:22,287 --> 00:35:24,288 Not only do I provide for you, 912 00:35:24,289 --> 00:35:26,373 but I also don't say no to you. 913 00:35:26,374 --> 00:35:29,252 OK, so but--so then I have to be punished? 914 00:35:30,128 --> 00:35:31,795 I'm gonna throw up. 915 00:35:31,796 --> 00:35:33,797 I, like, actually feel like I'm gonna throw up. 916 00:35:33,798 --> 00:35:37,301 Like, I don't feel like I've done anything wrong. 917 00:35:37,302 --> 00:35:39,136 I've tried to be the best mom. 918 00:35:39,137 --> 00:35:41,305 My kids are hard. - I'll be here. 919 00:35:41,306 --> 00:35:42,931 - Our kids are difficult. - I'll be here. 920 00:35:42,932 --> 00:35:44,099 They're really [bleep] hard! 921 00:35:45,727 --> 00:35:49,396 They're really [bleep] hard. - And that's OK. 922 00:35:49,397 --> 00:35:52,483 {\an8}This is not what I had in mind. 923 00:35:52,484 --> 00:35:54,443 {\an8}I feel so bad for my sister right now. 924 00:35:54,444 --> 00:35:56,653 {\an8}It just turned into a "let's shit on Stassi 925 00:35:56,654 --> 00:35:58,280 {\an8}and their entire relationship," 926 00:35:58,281 --> 00:36:00,282 {\an8}when all we wanted to do was just help them. 927 00:36:00,283 --> 00:36:01,950 They might be hard for you. 928 00:36:01,951 --> 00:36:03,619 I'm sure they're gonna be hard for me. 929 00:36:03,620 --> 00:36:04,536 My kids are hard. Kids are hard. 930 00:36:04,537 --> 00:36:06,705 Shut the [bleep] up! 931 00:36:06,706 --> 00:36:08,832 If you come at me one more time... 932 00:36:08,833 --> 00:36:10,250 I'm not coming at you. I'm just telling you-- 933 00:36:10,251 --> 00:36:12,461 About the kids, I will literally-- 934 00:36:12,462 --> 00:36:15,214 I am losing my mind. 935 00:36:15,215 --> 00:36:17,591 Because I can't handle my kids. 936 00:36:17,592 --> 00:36:19,510 I can't [bleep] handle it, 937 00:36:19,511 --> 00:36:21,637 and you remind me of it all the time. 938 00:36:21,638 --> 00:36:23,222 That's not what we're saying. 939 00:36:23,223 --> 00:36:25,349 And I want to literally go away. 940 00:36:25,350 --> 00:36:27,017 And no one can-- - That's not what we're saying. 941 00:36:27,018 --> 00:36:29,520 Shut the [bleep] up. Everyone shut the [bleep] up. 942 00:36:29,521 --> 00:36:31,980 You hit me all where it hurt. 943 00:36:31,981 --> 00:36:34,400 Everyone hit me where it hurt. 944 00:36:34,401 --> 00:36:35,693 That's not what we meant to do, Stassi. 945 00:36:35,694 --> 00:36:36,985 Because I talk about it all the time 946 00:36:36,986 --> 00:36:38,153 to you every night. 947 00:36:38,154 --> 00:36:40,114 I talk about it to you every night, 948 00:36:40,115 --> 00:36:43,283 how I feel like a bad mom, and I can't handle it. 949 00:36:46,079 --> 00:36:50,207 Oh, my God, oh, my God. 950 00:36:57,298 --> 00:36:59,425 {\an8}This night couldn't have gone worse. 951 00:36:59,426 --> 00:37:02,761 {\an8}Honestly, I really thought we had it figured out. 952 00:37:02,762 --> 00:37:04,555 {\an8}We knew what everyone was doing, 953 00:37:04,556 --> 00:37:05,973 {\an8}we knew the order it was supposed to be done, 954 00:37:05,974 --> 00:37:08,767 {\an8}and everything just went down the toilet. 955 00:37:13,773 --> 00:37:16,150 {\an8}Shut the [bleep] up. Everyone shut the [bleep] up. 956 00:37:16,151 --> 00:37:18,026 {\an8}You hit me all where it hurt. 957 00:37:18,027 --> 00:37:20,821 {\an8}Everyone hit me where it hurt. 958 00:37:20,822 --> 00:37:22,239 {\an8}That's not what we meant to do, Stassi. 959 00:37:22,240 --> 00:37:24,199 {\an8}'Cause I talk about it all the time to you every night. 960 00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,118 {\an8}I talk about it to you every night, 961 00:37:26,119 --> 00:37:28,912 {\an8}how I feel like a bad mom, and I can't handle it. 962 00:37:32,917 --> 00:37:36,503 {\an8}Oh, my God, oh, my God. 963 00:37:43,595 --> 00:37:46,805 {\an8}I have no idea how to even get back on track. 964 00:37:46,806 --> 00:37:48,849 {\an8}It just sucks. 965 00:37:48,850 --> 00:37:53,270 {\an8}I mean, this is not what I was hoping 966 00:37:53,271 --> 00:37:55,899 {\an8}would happen when we would come back on reality television. 967 00:37:58,943 --> 00:38:00,611 Listen, I'm sorry. 968 00:38:00,612 --> 00:38:02,780 This is not like I want you to feel bad. 969 00:38:02,781 --> 00:38:04,531 I never want you to feel bad. 970 00:38:04,532 --> 00:38:07,034 I literally just only felt bad. 971 00:38:07,035 --> 00:38:09,036 And the fact that you were actually mad at me 972 00:38:09,037 --> 00:38:12,706 in any way is [bleep] batshit crazy. 973 00:38:12,707 --> 00:38:14,958 You should say you're right. - OK, all right, Stass. 974 00:38:14,959 --> 00:38:16,877 I pay for--come on, Beau. 975 00:38:16,878 --> 00:38:18,462 Should I--should I [bleep] clean your shoes? 976 00:38:18,463 --> 00:38:19,505 No, you should just say-- 977 00:38:19,506 --> 00:38:20,464 Should I clean your shoes too? 978 00:38:20,465 --> 00:38:21,673 You should just say-- 979 00:38:21,674 --> 00:38:23,050 Let me wipe my kids' ass, wipe your shoes. 980 00:38:23,051 --> 00:38:24,009 Make sure that everything's-- 981 00:38:24,010 --> 00:38:25,302 You should just say, you're right. 982 00:38:25,303 --> 00:38:26,637 I'm not. 983 00:38:26,638 --> 00:38:27,971 I'm--just take some [bleep] accountability 984 00:38:27,972 --> 00:38:29,848 for yourself and your actions. - Tell me what to take-- 985 00:38:29,849 --> 00:38:31,350 I tried to [bleep] talk to you 986 00:38:31,351 --> 00:38:32,726 and tried to tell you accountability. 987 00:38:32,727 --> 00:38:34,937 Tell me concrete things to take accountability for. 988 00:38:34,938 --> 00:38:37,272 Well, there's a lot, Stass. 989 00:38:37,273 --> 00:38:38,649 There's a lot. 990 00:38:38,650 --> 00:38:42,903 There's--I don't feel good in our relationship. 991 00:38:42,904 --> 00:38:44,488 I don't feel loved. 992 00:38:44,489 --> 00:38:45,823 I feel like any time that I want 993 00:38:45,824 --> 00:38:47,324 to have physical activity with you, 994 00:38:47,325 --> 00:38:49,117 I'm making you do it. 995 00:38:49,118 --> 00:38:51,912 There's just been so much of just my own regression 996 00:38:51,913 --> 00:38:53,163 on my own feelings. 997 00:38:54,374 --> 00:38:57,167 What the [bleep] are you talking about? 998 00:38:57,168 --> 00:38:59,628 No, you don't--I want to go. 999 00:38:59,629 --> 00:39:01,338 All right. 1000 00:39:06,052 --> 00:39:09,054 I just can't believe Beau fell for this. 1001 00:39:09,055 --> 00:39:11,181 {\an8}Like my world is, like, falling apart. 1002 00:39:11,182 --> 00:39:14,852 {\an8}Like, I'm just watching him just be like, yeah, yeah, 1003 00:39:14,853 --> 00:39:18,480 {\an8}yeah, they're right, forgetting all of the, like, 1004 00:39:18,481 --> 00:39:19,648 {\an8}the strides that we've made. 1005 00:39:19,649 --> 00:39:21,608 {\an8}Like, forgetting all of that. 1006 00:39:21,609 --> 00:39:25,362 {\an8}Just, like, going right back to complaining mode. 1007 00:39:25,363 --> 00:39:28,449 {\an8}It's crazy. 1008 00:39:30,368 --> 00:39:34,705 No, shut the [bleep] up. 1009 00:39:34,706 --> 00:39:38,084 How the [bleep] do you think you were hurt? 1010 00:39:49,137 --> 00:39:50,679 I feel so stupid. 1011 00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:52,180 I don't trust you. 1012 00:39:52,181 --> 00:39:54,266 I don't think I know you. 1013 00:39:54,267 --> 00:39:58,061 I-- 1014 00:39:58,062 --> 00:40:00,898 if you didn't want this life, you should have said it. 1015 00:40:00,899 --> 00:40:02,941 Like, this is-- - This life has changed. 1016 00:40:02,942 --> 00:40:06,695 You just said we've changed. - Then [bleep] leave! 1017 00:40:06,696 --> 00:40:10,908 And I never want to see you again. 1018 00:40:10,909 --> 00:40:13,619 Get away from me! You don't understand! 1019 00:40:13,620 --> 00:40:15,454 I don't understand because you don't actually 1020 00:40:15,455 --> 00:40:16,914 [bleep] open up and talk to me. 1021 00:40:16,915 --> 00:40:18,582 You don't actually open up and talk to me. 1022 00:40:18,583 --> 00:40:20,042 You wouldn't let me go-- 1023 00:40:20,043 --> 00:40:22,044 - It's not about going out! - You're acting like it is! 1024 00:40:22,045 --> 00:40:23,670 It's not about going-- no, 'cause that's 1025 00:40:23,671 --> 00:40:25,255 the only thing that you're [bleep] pinpointing. 1026 00:40:25,256 --> 00:40:26,965 - What is it? - It's so many other things. 1027 00:40:26,966 --> 00:40:29,009 But you're not [bleep] listening. 1028 00:40:29,010 --> 00:40:30,928 I can't. I can't. 1029 00:40:41,731 --> 00:40:44,484 I want to go. I want to go. 1030 00:40:46,569 --> 00:40:48,028 {\an8}First of all, I feel stupid 'cause, like, 1031 00:40:48,029 --> 00:40:49,738 {\an8}I didn't see this coming, and I should have. 1032 00:40:49,739 --> 00:40:52,741 {\an8}It's called House of [bleep] Stassi. 1033 00:40:52,742 --> 00:40:54,534 {\an8}I haven't been the best wife. 1034 00:40:54,535 --> 00:40:58,246 {\an8}But over the last few months, I've tried really hard to-- 1035 00:40:58,247 --> 00:40:59,915 {\an8}to be better at that. 1036 00:40:59,916 --> 00:41:03,168 {\an8}I have heard everyone out. 1037 00:41:03,169 --> 00:41:04,961 {\an8}I have taken it in, 1038 00:41:04,962 --> 00:41:07,255 {\an8}tried to make moves to be better. 1039 00:41:07,256 --> 00:41:10,676 {\an8}So for this to happen now, it's [bleep] crazy. 1040 00:41:13,971 --> 00:41:15,972 {\an8}None of this has been helpful. 1041 00:41:15,973 --> 00:41:17,349 {\an8}None of this has been helpful. 1042 00:41:17,350 --> 00:41:19,893 {\an8}Everyone is wanting to hold me accountable, 1043 00:41:19,894 --> 00:41:22,729 {\an8}but, like, I need them to answer. 1044 00:41:22,730 --> 00:41:26,191 {\an8}Like, what did they think this was going to accomplish? 1045 00:41:26,192 --> 00:41:28,986 {\an8}How did anyone think that this was a good idea? 1046 00:41:28,987 --> 00:41:33,156 {\an8}They don't just get a seat at the table of my life. 1047 00:41:33,157 --> 00:41:36,451 {\an8}Like, you don't get to act this way and still be here. 1048 00:41:39,247 --> 00:41:41,498 {\an8}I feel like Julius Caesar. 1049 00:41:41,499 --> 00:41:42,541 {\an8}That's what I feel like. 1050 00:41:42,542 --> 00:41:44,126 {\an8}The [bleep]? 1051 00:41:46,337 --> 00:41:50,424 {\an8}We all know that me crying on the Queen Mary... 1052 00:41:51,926 --> 00:41:54,845 {\an8}That's not how this is gonna ultimately end. 1053 00:41:54,846 --> 00:41:57,347 {\an8}I'm gonna deal with you later.